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Social story: Asking for help in class

Asking for help means noticing you are stuck, finding words for it, getting the teacher’s attention and then waiting. Each of those is a step many autistic and neurodivergent students find hard, and the alternative, sitting quietly with a problem, is easy to miss in a busy room.

This story gives the student a short script and a signal, and describes what the teacher will do when they see it. Rehearse the signal once or twice so it feels normal. A small "I need help" card on the desk gives a student who cannot speak up in the moment a way to be seen.

A sample story

Illustration from a sample social story about asking for help in class: The character sits at a small wooden classroom desk, looking down at an open exercise book with a pencil in their hand.

Asking for Help in Class

  1. 1Sometimes I look at my work and feel stuck.
  2. 2My teacher wants to help me when I am stuck.
  3. 3I put my hand up and wait at my desk.
  4. 4I ask for help, and I can keep going.

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Tips for using it

  • Agree one signal, a card or a hand on the desk, and use it every time.
  • Respond to the signal quickly in the first week so the student learns it works.
  • Praise the asking, not the answer.

Common questions

What if the student will not speak in class?

Write a non-verbal signal into the story, such as turning a card face up. The story should describe the way this student can really ask, not a way that sounds good on paper.

Can the story name a specific teacher?

Yes. Using the real names of the adults in the room makes the story concrete and helps a student who has more than one teacher.

How is this different from putting up my hand?

The hand-up story is about joining a class discussion. This one is about the private moment of being stuck and letting someone know, which many students find harder.